Wednesday, March 25, 2009
The Lam's Photo Shoot
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Valentine's Day and My Birthday....Yeah, I Know It's Late!
First of all, I know this is late. I know I’m way behind in my blog posts. I work at a college and it’s just been crazy busy because the Spring semester just started. When I get off work at 7pm and drop off all the Samoans, I finally get home at about 7:45 and make dinner for Ben and myself. After that I just totally want to veg and spend time with Ben so I haven’t had time to blog or even facebook. Well we just started our 4th week so it’s a little slower now, so I finally have time (and energy) to show off some pictures and brag about how wonderful my husband is and how cute my nieces are. Ha! I’ve been wanting to post our wonderful Valentines Extended Weekend and my special Birthday present from Ben and some cute pics of my nieces, so now I finally have the time!
I hate blogging like this though. I don’t like reading blogs either where people blog about 50 million things in one post. But it’s information I want to document so I’m going to do it….again!
Well Valentines day this year fell on a Saturday. At work we just happened to have the Friday before and the Monday after off for President’s day. Then I asked for Tuesday off also. So my Valentines weekend turned out to be 5 fun filled days with my wonderful hubby.
On Friday we went to the
On Saturday we went to the Ronald Reagan Library. That was really neat! It was interesting to see how our country’s current financial situation is similar to what it was when Reagan was president and how our current administration is doing the complete opposite of what Reagan successfully did. I’ll stop there. That could be a whole other blog. We had a lot of fun there too.

They do this fancy Valentines day dinner with a live band and dancing. The room they had set up was beautiful!!! Red, black and white, and it over looked the valley. President Reagan’s, Air Force 1 was in there too. Ben said maybe next year we could make reservations for the dinner!
For this year we went home for dinner. I had a special Valentines dinner planned. We started with salad and mini heart shaped pizzas with heart shaped pepperonis. Then we had coconut shrimp and heart shaped steak with blue cheese and broccoli. For dessert I made him a special chocolate raspberry cake. Dinner was so good, if I do say so myself! I love cooking! I just wish I had more time and money to do it. I wish I would have taken pictures of everything else. The pizzas came out really cute.
Sunday we had church and dinner at my dad’s. Fun as always!

Monday we stayed home and vegged because it was really rainy. Tuesday we drove up to our favorite spot in So Cal. Nojoqui Falls. It was a rainy weekend so the falls were more beautiful than ever.
I’ve blogged about these falls before. It’s on the way up to Solvang through a windy back road.
It’s a short hike about 15 minutes to the top and it’s a calming and peaceful hike. Then we stopped in Solvang and visited our favorite antique store and went to our favorite bakery for our favorite chocolate cake. Then we went down to the beach and watched the sunset again!
It was such a great 5 days off and it was so wonderful to be able to spend those days with my hubby. It was really hard to have to go back to work on Wednesday.
Two weeks later for my birthday Ben planned this whole day of surprises. He just told me how to dress for the day and off we went. Well first we went to 
Our captain was cool and let us pretty much do anything we wanted. He even offered to let us drive the yacht. We saw a bunch of seals and about 10 dolphins. At one point the captain started racing the dolphins so they were swimming and jumping right by our boat.
I tried to get some good pictures but it was more amazing to see without the viewfinder of the camera to my eye.
After our 2 hour cruise, Ben had planned a picnic lunch at
I had never been to Salt Creek before but it’s like my new favorite spot. We sat on the grassy cliffs right above the beach and had a lovely picnic lunch.
Some curious little squirrels started coming really close to us.
Then all of a sudden there were about 15 squirrels all around us. Ben started feeding them chips and then they became our new best friends.





That night to we went down and watched the sunset again on the beach. There’s nothing more comforting to me than to sit in my husbands arms on a cool night watching the sunset on the beach. Sooooooo peaceful! We don’t have enough money right now to go on extravagant vacations or cruises’, which I would love, but we do have a lot of fun visiting the various locations here in
Oh and in case you read this blog but are not on facebook, Ben passed the nursing state exam and is now finally a licensed Registered Nurse! I just pray now that he can find a job soon!
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Potty Talk - The Asian Squat
So I had to go to the market to get a few things tonight and most of the things I needed were from an Asian supermarket. I stopped by the "99 Ranch Market" (an Asian supermarket) on my way home from work. While there I had to use the restroom and when I walked in I saw this sign on the door of each stall.
The Asian Squat - I don't know how or why it started but it's just something that Asian people do.

I guess some would think why the heck would someone stand on a toilet seat! Well, in Korea, the toilets look like this...
This is a more modern toilet in Korea. You just basically hoover over the white part and pray that your stuff goes in...That's why they squat!
Saturday, February 14, 2009
My Valentine to Ben!
Monday, February 9, 2009
Help!!!
I had no clue that trying to get pregnant would be so hard! I’m feeling so frustrated and hopeless of the whole gosh darn situation. We’ve officially tried for 9 months now with no success. I did get pregnant in September but didn’t know I was pregnant till I miscarried in October. We were sad, but grateful that it was still way early in the pregnancy.
Well, it's the beginning of the year and still no success. I feel like we've done everything we could (except get drunk). So I made an appointment today, to talk to my doctor about fertility treatments. The appointment is scheduled for next week and I'm kind of nervous. Ben is excited because to him, Fertility Treatments = Multiples! Friends keep telling me to be patient and it will happen, not on my time but on the Lord's time. And I totally get that, it's just that I feel like my time is running out. I'm going to be 30 in less than a month and that means that I'll only have 5 good years to have all of our babies before I'd be in the high risk stage! I don't want to turn to fertility drugs but I also don't want to wait too long! I'm starting to feel like it's our only option. It's scary to me because I don't know or understand all of the side effects both short term and long term and also it scares me because it's not natural. I'm so totally bummed and stressed to the max and I know that this is not helping any.
Every month I get excited because I get some kind of pregnancy symptom but then I get my monthly visit from the crimson tide. Especially this month, I was so convinced that I was preggo! I had breast soreness for 2 weeks straight now, I gained 5lbs, I keep smelling pickles, I've been craving Kraft Singles (which I hate), bloating and I even feel nauseous! I learned last night that this is called, Pseudocyesis or false pregnancy symptoms.
So now I feel like some crazy lady with a tilted uterus, hypothyroid, a uterine fibroid, Pseudocyesis and still not pregnant! Arrrrrgggg!!!!
I wish we could just go away on a vacation for a couple of days and just relax and leave all of our worries and stresses at home.
Sunday, February 1, 2009
I originally wasn't going to post this, but just had to share how awful my sister Brenda is.
For instance around Halloween, Brenda, Kerry and I went to Target to do some shopping. Kerry was sitting in the cart and I was pushing. Brenda quietly grabbed a scary monster mask and put it on, then grabbed the shopping cart from me. Kerry just freaked out and hysterically started crying and screaming. Brenda was cracking up! She finally took off the mask to calm Kerry down, but the funny thing was that Kerry just started crying even more! The poor little girl just threw herself at me and wouldn't go to or even look at her mom.
Remind me to never let my horrible sister ever babysit my children.
I can only imagine what else my sister does to my poor niece. When we were younger, I was tortured and mentally and physically abused by Brenda.
One time, she was supposed to be babysitting me when my parent's went out. It was night-time and she made me sit with her and watch "Nightmare on Elm Street". The next thing I knew she was running out of the house and down the street with a knife and blood all over her, screaming that Freddy Kruger got her. What she had done was poured ketchup all over her body and stuck a butcher knife under her armpit. I just remember screaming and crying, running after her down the street. I guess this is why I turned out the way that I did.
So now that you have an idea of how my sister is, it brings me to my story that again, originally I wasn't going to post, but I think the world should know to keep your children away from this crazy woman!
We found a few and we were cleaning them off and explaining to Kerry the little we knew about worms. She was enthralled at how you could see the poop and blood moving through their little see-through bodies.
My sister started coughing and laughing so we looked over at her and this is what we saw!!!
It was absolutely repulsive! I can't believe my brother-in-law actually kisses this woman! My poor niece was screaming and gagging! Ben was shaking his head and just taken aback. All I could do was just snap these photos.
The funny part is that while I was recording she was saying, "Don't get my face. That's gross! I don't have make-up on!"
Like that was the gross part!
Sunday, January 11, 2009
I'm in Love.....
So I don't know if you all saw our Christmas card photo this year. But my friend from work Manuel taught me a few little things about Photshop and here's what I did...
In the picture that I liked of Ben and I, both Peanut and Otis weren't looking at the camera. So I found pictures of Peanut and Otis that were somewhat decent and photoshopped their faces out of those pictures and put them onto the photo of Ben and I that I liked.
Here's a before and after...

I even photoshopped the little camera remote out of my hand. Ha! I love it!
Now here's something else that my friend taught me on Photoshop...



You can select certain parts of your photo and turn them into "layers" then take the color out of certain layers to get this kind of effect.
I'm still just practicing and I can't wait to learn more!
I'm really thinking of taking a Photoshop class now. They offer one at Mt. SAC and since I get classes for free... Anybody (Caroline!) want to join with me?
Saturday, January 3, 2009
My Merry Christmas
As expected the entire month of December just flew by. We were extremely busy. We are every month but especially were this month. I sometimes wonder how people do all this with kids too. Well it was busy but lots of fun. So much fun and so busy that I wish that I could do the whole month over again. But I'll have to wait till next year.

So every year we position the tripod then we position ourselves and set the camera to timer. This year is the first year where I had a remote for the camera so I didn't have to keep getting up to push the shutter button. You can see the remote in my hand in all the pics. Ha!


Santa's reindeer was the perfect costume for Sungah. Before I bought this costume I described her to people as a Chiuahua mixed with a Reindeer. She had these super long reindeer legs. Peanut was in drag this year since Otis did the drag thing 3 years ago for Halloween.

This is the point where I realized they were getting tired of the pics. Peanut is always so good though. He always sits still and looks at the camera.

Eric and Sung-Su


Just look at the excitement on my husbands face! I love this picture. He was so excited because he bought me like 10 presents but wrapped them all together in one. So when I started opening it all these little presents started falling out. Fooled you!

I'm glad Ben faked the excitement when he opened this. It was his second GPS that he recieved this year. He kept the one I gave him though.

We played, Scattergories, Apples to Apples and about 6 hours of Tabu! We were so involved in the game that we didn't even realize it was midnight! We heard fireworks out side and people yelling. That's when we realized we missed the whole thing. It was funny because we didn't even stop. We just told everyone "Happy New Year" and went on playing.

Extreme Close-Up

We love bringing new people up to the falls. It's so beautiful!

Ute's Won!



























































